If you are having issues in your marriage, you might not even realize that there are problems going on if they have been going on for a while and they gradually continued to get worse over time. When something happens in an instant, such as infidelity, then the signs of marriage troubles will be immediately noticeable. If you are feeling there may be serious issues in your marriage, then you may want to start considering whether you feel the marriage can be saved. If it can't, then you should get yourself a divorce attorney to help you through the divorce process. 

You can't remember the last time you were truly happy

When you are in a good marriage, you should have more periods of happiness than you have of periods without happiness. If you feel like you can't even remember the last time that you were really happy, then this is a good indication that your marriage is in a very bad place, and you may want to begin thinking about divorce if you don't feel like the marriage has any hope. A divorce can shut that chapter and help you get started on a new one soon. 

 You seem to have separate lives

If you and your spouse have become more like roommates who are living separate lives, then you should start putting a lot of thought into your marriage. If you are sleeping in different rooms and have different schedules and it doesn't bother you, you have all different friends, and you seem to have nothing in common anymore, then this can be a big red flag letting you know that it is possible and even likely that the two of you have grown apart, possibly to the point where there isn't enough glue still remaining to keep the marriage together. Growing apart is a common reason why many people get divorced. 

Those closest to you are telling you to leave

While there may be a person who is close to you who never got along well with your spouse for one reason or another, most of your family and friends should like your spouse if you are in a healthy relationship. If you find that more people you are close to in your life start telling you that you should get out of your marriage, you should consider taking their advice and talking to a divorce attorney.

To learn more about marriage dissolution, contact a lawyer.